Kendra Wilkinson in February 2023.Photo:Victoria Sirakova/GettyKendra Wilkinsonis prioritizing herself.The formerKendra on Topstar, 38, is “pushing dating asidefor until I feel better about it all,” she shared in the latest episode ofPodcastOne’sOn Display with Melissa Gorga. “It’s really important just to really focus on my kids, focus on my business, focus and not allow the noise to distract me — and men, because you know, and I think men, it’s really just going to be a difficult process for me to find love again.“Kendra Wilksinson in July 2022.Paul Archuleta/GettyThe formerPlayboymodel, who shares kidsHank IV, 13, andAlijah Mary, 9, with ex-husbandHank Baskett, is concerned that men who want to date her have a certain image of her in their mind that days back to herpinup days.“There’s a lot of problems when it comes to finding a man, or whatever because men think ‘Playboy,'” she told podcast host andReal Housewives of New JerseystarMelissa Gorga, 44. “They think I’m a certain type. They think I have these massive boobs so I have to be a certain thing.” She might be a “fun person” and a “free spirit,” but she is not going to be “caught up in someone’s idea of what I am when I’m not even close to that.““I’m just a basic tomboy, real estate agent mom,” Wilksinon said, noting that she recently turned down a date with a “really gorgeous, hot man.” She did not think the man was “really in it for me, but this idea [of me].“Kendra Wilkinson in June 2022.Alberto E. Rodriguez/GettyGorga agreed that the dating situation can be rough: “You’re getting better at fishing out who’s legit looking for a normal date, that they just want to go and meet somebody and who is someone looking for Kendra from the Playboy Mansion.“It is a challenge for celebrities to date, Wilkinson noted, since “some people are still out for clout.” That is why she chooses to “stay more alone” and why “a lot of celebrities do stay [alone],” she said, adding, “I stay alone a lot because it’s really just difficult to navigate sometimes for even friendships.““There’s a hard part about doing what we do,” Wilkinson told Gorga. “There’s a good part and there’s a hard part. But the most important things are the kids and they see me as a mom so that’s the most important identity I have today. And all I do is for them and make sure that they’re taking care of the rest is just like, you know?“John Shearer/GettyEarlier this month, Wilkinson toldE! Newsshe isputting her personal growth ahead of datingfour years after finalizingher divorcefrom Baskett, 40.“I’m just trying to figure out who I am right now,” Wilkinson said. “Like, it’s a process. It’s a lot. So, I’m really getting to know who I am right now, and it takes a lot of time to do that.“Wilkinson’s work as a Douglas Elliman realtor in Los Angeles is the focus of her latest reality seriesKendra Sells Hollywood.“Every day I wake up there is something to learn, whether it’s about my new career or about myself,” shetold PEOPLEin 2021. “I’m learning that it’s about focusing on the small wins and that mistakes are meant to be a part of it to teach me how to improve and grow.“Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.Kendra Sells Hollywoodcan be streamed on Max.

Kendra Wilkinson in February 2023.Photo:Victoria Sirakova/Getty

Kendra Wilkinson attends Sue Wong’s Palazzo Marrakech celebration at a private residence on February 24, 2023

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Kendra Wilkinsonis prioritizing herself.The formerKendra on Topstar, 38, is “pushing dating asidefor until I feel better about it all,” she shared in the latest episode ofPodcastOne’sOn Display with Melissa Gorga. “It’s really important just to really focus on my kids, focus on my business, focus and not allow the noise to distract me — and men, because you know, and I think men, it’s really just going to be a difficult process for me to find love again.“Kendra Wilksinson in July 2022.Paul Archuleta/GettyThe formerPlayboymodel, who shares kidsHank IV, 13, andAlijah Mary, 9, with ex-husbandHank Baskett, is concerned that men who want to date her have a certain image of her in their mind that days back to herpinup days.“There’s a lot of problems when it comes to finding a man, or whatever because men think ‘Playboy,'” she told podcast host andReal Housewives of New JerseystarMelissa Gorga, 44. “They think I’m a certain type. They think I have these massive boobs so I have to be a certain thing.” She might be a “fun person” and a “free spirit,” but she is not going to be “caught up in someone’s idea of what I am when I’m not even close to that.““I’m just a basic tomboy, real estate agent mom,” Wilksinon said, noting that she recently turned down a date with a “really gorgeous, hot man.” She did not think the man was “really in it for me, but this idea [of me].“Kendra Wilkinson in June 2022.Alberto E. Rodriguez/GettyGorga agreed that the dating situation can be rough: “You’re getting better at fishing out who’s legit looking for a normal date, that they just want to go and meet somebody and who is someone looking for Kendra from the Playboy Mansion.“It is a challenge for celebrities to date, Wilkinson noted, since “some people are still out for clout.” That is why she chooses to “stay more alone” and why “a lot of celebrities do stay [alone],” she said, adding, “I stay alone a lot because it’s really just difficult to navigate sometimes for even friendships.““There’s a hard part about doing what we do,” Wilkinson told Gorga. “There’s a good part and there’s a hard part. But the most important things are the kids and they see me as a mom so that’s the most important identity I have today. And all I do is for them and make sure that they’re taking care of the rest is just like, you know?“John Shearer/GettyEarlier this month, Wilkinson toldE! Newsshe isputting her personal growth ahead of datingfour years after finalizingher divorcefrom Baskett, 40.“I’m just trying to figure out who I am right now,” Wilkinson said. “Like, it’s a process. It’s a lot. So, I’m really getting to know who I am right now, and it takes a lot of time to do that.“Wilkinson’s work as a Douglas Elliman realtor in Los Angeles is the focus of her latest reality seriesKendra Sells Hollywood.“Every day I wake up there is something to learn, whether it’s about my new career or about myself,” shetold PEOPLEin 2021. “I’m learning that it’s about focusing on the small wins and that mistakes are meant to be a part of it to teach me how to improve and grow.“Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.Kendra Sells Hollywoodcan be streamed on Max.

Kendra Wilkinsonis prioritizing herself.

The formerKendra on Topstar, 38, is “pushing dating asidefor until I feel better about it all,” she shared in the latest episode ofPodcastOne’sOn Display with Melissa Gorga. “It’s really important just to really focus on my kids, focus on my business, focus and not allow the noise to distract me — and men, because you know, and I think men, it’s really just going to be a difficult process for me to find love again.”

Kendra Wilksinson in July 2022.Paul Archuleta/Getty

Reality TV Personality Kendra Wilkinson attends the Game On Gala 2022 at Hyde Sunset Kitchen + Cocktails on July 19, 2022

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The formerPlayboymodel, who shares kidsHank IV, 13, andAlijah Mary, 9, with ex-husbandHank Baskett, is concerned that men who want to date her have a certain image of her in their mind that days back to herpinup days.

“There’s a lot of problems when it comes to finding a man, or whatever because men think ‘Playboy,'” she told podcast host andReal Housewives of New JerseystarMelissa Gorga, 44. “They think I’m a certain type. They think I have these massive boobs so I have to be a certain thing.” She might be a “fun person” and a “free spirit,” but she is not going to be “caught up in someone’s idea of what I am when I’m not even close to that.”

“I’m just a basic tomboy, real estate agent mom,” Wilksinon said, noting that she recently turned down a date with a “really gorgeous, hot man.” She did not think the man was “really in it for me, but this idea [of me].”

Kendra Wilkinson in June 2022.Alberto E. Rodriguez/Getty

Kendra Wilkinson attends the “Moulin Rouge” Los Angeles Opening Night Performance at Hollywood Pantages Theatre on June 30, 2022

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Gorga agreed that the dating situation can be rough: “You’re getting better at fishing out who’s legit looking for a normal date, that they just want to go and meet somebody and who is someone looking for Kendra from the Playboy Mansion.”

It is a challenge for celebrities to date, Wilkinson noted, since “some people are still out for clout.” That is why she chooses to “stay more alone” and why “a lot of celebrities do stay [alone],” she said, adding, “I stay alone a lot because it’s really just difficult to navigate sometimes for even friendships.”

“There’s a hard part about doing what we do,” Wilkinson told Gorga. “There’s a good part and there’s a hard part. But the most important things are the kids and they see me as a mom so that’s the most important identity I have today. And all I do is for them and make sure that they’re taking care of the rest is just like, you know?”

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Earlier this month, Wilkinson toldE! Newsshe isputting her personal growth ahead of datingfour years after finalizingher divorcefrom Baskett, 40.

“I’m just trying to figure out who I am right now,” Wilkinson said. “Like, it’s a process. It’s a lot. So, I’m really getting to know who I am right now, and it takes a lot of time to do that.”

Wilkinson’s work as a Douglas Elliman realtor in Los Angeles is the focus of her latest reality seriesKendra Sells Hollywood.

“Every day I wake up there is something to learn, whether it’s about my new career or about myself,” shetold PEOPLEin 2021. “I’m learning that it’s about focusing on the small wins and that mistakes are meant to be a part of it to teach me how to improve and grow.”

Never miss a story — sign up forPEOPLE’s free daily newsletterto stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.

Kendra Sells Hollywoodcan be streamed on Max.

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