Ariana Madixis no longer interested in putting up withTom Sandoval’s antics, whether or not it’s his birthday!

Ahead of next week’s episode ofVanderpump Rules, theChicagoperformer, 38, denied the Schwartz & Sandys co-owner’s request to throw a birthday party in their shared home. Communicating through third parties, Tom’s assistant Ann was given the awkward task of asking Ariana for permission.

“Tomorrow’s my birthday, I wanted to just, like, have people over,” he says.

As he sees the skeptical look on Ann’s face, Tom adds: “Ariana’s obviously invited if she wants to come.”

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Tom Sandoval wants to host a birthday party for himself at his and Ariana Madix’s home, but Ariana is not on board. Then, Lisa Vanderpump opens up about closing down a restaurant after 10 years. Start watching Episode 2 now!. Vanderpump Rules Season 11 Episode 2. Stream the latest episodes of Vanderpump Rules

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When his assistant notes his ex will probably won’t be attending the festivities, Tom suggests, “You can ask her if she wants to stay in, like, a nice hotel. I could get her a nice hotel room.”

Despite his gesture, Ariana isn’t willing to let a party happen under their shared roof.

“That’s not happening,” she says with a smile. “I think that’s very disrespectful and inappropriate. If he wants to have a party, he can have it somewhere else.”

“If there are people here making noise, I will call the cops,” she adds.

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Tom Sandoval wants to host a birthday party for himself at his and Ariana Madix’s home, but Ariana is not on board. Then, Lisa Vanderpump opens up about closing down a restaurant after 10 years. Start watching Episode 2 now!. Vanderpump Rules Season 11 Episode 2. Stream the latest episodes of Vanderpump Rules

In a conversation with cameras, theDancing with the Starsalum recalls the memories of Tom’s previous birthday bashes and how the idea of another one happening has sent her “spiraling.”

“There would be loud music playing, mess, disgusting, everywhere, and it would be, like, three, four, five, sometimes six in the morning,” she explains. “But now that we’re not together, I’m not putting up with that s—.”

The exes had been in a relationship for nine years when Arianalearned that Tom was cheating on herwith their costarRachel “Raquel” Leviss. Though the two officially called it quits in March 2023, the pair had been at odds about what would happen to the Los Angeles home that they bought together in 2019 and renovated in 2021.

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Ariana Madix; Tom Sandoval; Raquel Leviss

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Vanderpump Rulesairs Tuesday at 8 p.m. ET on Bravo.

source: people.com