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KOURTNEY KARDASHIAN/INSTAGRAM
Kourtney Kardashian Barkeris talking about how her own upbringing still impacts her parenting to this day.
“We do live in a world that’s obsessed with perfection. I think my mom always had us dressing alike and being really polished and [having our] hair done,” Kourtney says of her own childhood.
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When it comes toReign, 8,Penelope, 11, andMason, 13, Kourtney says, “I think I’m really conscious with my own kids about giving them the freedom to express themselves and not put so much pressure on perfectionism.”
Back in the sister’s discussion, the Good American co-founder, 39, adds, “I definitely don’t want our kids to have those insecurities, but I do my best at home.”
“I think the messaging is, ‘You’re good enough just the way you are,’ " Kourtney replies. “And just owning who you are.”

Shortly after, Barker, 47, began a drumroll and he kissed his wife, before striking the drum’s symbols just as a burst of blue streamers shot in the air behind them, confirming that the couple are having a boy.
The couple’s upcoming arrival with also be Barker’s fourth child. He is a dad to three children with exShanna Moakler: sonLandon, 19, daughterAlabama, 17, and stepdaughterAtiana, 24.
source: people.com